Overcoming Tooth Brushing Struggles For Children With Autism

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Our Family Motto

For parents it’s all about finding creative ways to introduce and teach your child about tooth brushing and routine oral hygiene. Every child responds in their own way, and for children with Autism their reactions may be unforeseen because of communication challenges, or certain behavioral characteristics to new changes in routine and sensory sensitivities.

This is especially stressful for you when you’re trying to establish healthy dental hygiene habits and your child is overwhelmed by sounds, smells, tastes, textures, or flavors.

So what to do and where to start to overcome your tooth brushing struggles?

In our last post My Child Has Autism, How Can I Brush Their Teeth? we suggested 2 ideas. Creating a step by step picture guide book (aka story board) or an activity schedule. We included a step by step plan for you on how to assemble your own story board and activity sheet. Which one (or both) you choose, they are absolutely helpful and go a long way to establishing your daily routine.

Now that you have your story board or activity sheet ready to go it’s time for the next step–

Second, Let’s Practice

There are a lot of movements we make with our mouths when we brush, so it’s always good to practice.

1st, it’s great to start with opening wide, and staying open wide. Maybe you make it a game and count to see how long you can both stay open wide. Remember to use the phone timer to count those seconds.

2nd, let’s count teeth. How many teeth are in there? Yes you need to count all the way to the back so be sure to (you guessed it) stay open wide.

3rd, let’s brush. Put a dab of toothpaste on the brush, remember to open wide, and let’s brush those teeth slowly and gently. Maybe you can count teeth, sing a song, or use the phone timer to count. Remember your goal is 2Minutes 2X’s A Day.

For children who have taste or texture sensitivity, there are fluoride tooth pastes that come in different flavors (bubblegum, berry), or unflavored or non-foaming (sodium lauryl sulfate free). There are also choices for toothbrushes, such as a spinning or battery-powered toothbrush for children who like vibration.

4th, time to spit out the toothpaste. Spitting not happening? No problem, drooling out the toothpaste in the sink (or washcloth) and wiping with a wet washcloth is a good alternative, or skip the drooling and use the wet wash cloth.

Sometimes children need more assistance and more practice with brushing their teeth.

If brushing is challenging it may be the sensation is uncomfortable. If that’s the case then try showing the brushing on your finger first, then on their finger, then on the back of their hand, then on their lips, then just inside their mouth or pick the 2 front teeth (top or bottom their choice) and start with brushing those teeth.

Third, Help Your Child Learn The Steps For Toothbrushing

Your child’s age determines how much tooth paste goes on their brush. If they’re 3 years old and younger place a rice grain size of tooth paste on their brush. If they’re older than 3 years old place a peas size amount on their brush.

  • Brush the top front teeth (inside, outside, and chewing surfaces),
  • Brush the bottom front teeth (inside and outside),
  • Brush the bottom back teeth (outside, inside, and top surface),
  • Brush the top back teeth (inside, outside, and chewing surface),
  • Finally, brush all around and spit out the tooth paste.

Fourth, Develop A Reward System

Children adore receiving praise from their parents and parents are eager to show their pride in their child, so let your child know how proud of them you are.

You can also start a rewards system (such as a rewards jar or sticker book) to reinforce your pride and their positive behavior after toothbrushing is complete.

Medical and Dental Go Together

As parents you may be dealing with multiple pressing significant health issues for your child and you need to prioritize their needs. They may be taking medicines that are sugar flavored so that you can get them to take it. Going to bed with a bottle of a nutrition drink may be part of your nightly routine because your child needs to gain weight.

Please do not let their dental health take a back seat. It can be as easy as wiping their mouths, tongue and cheeks with a wet washcloth while you are holding them. Or alternating their bottle with water so they don’t fall asleep with the sugary liquid on their teeth even though you’re still wiping their teeth with a wash cloth. You can always slip in some water for them to drink during the day or begin by diluting their juice with 50% water then 75% water then 100% water.

Remember What’s Most Important

Lots of praise, hugs and smiles for both of you!

Tell us about your Story Board or Activity Sheet. How is brushing time for your family? What works for your family? Share your tip with us, we’d love to know. Email us at kidstoothhotline@protonmail.me Like Us on Facebook at facebook.com/kidstoothhotline.

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My Child Has Autism, How Can I Brush Their Teeth?

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When Autism Speaks It's Time To Listen
When Autism Speaks It’s Time To Listen

As parents we are always looking out for our children, empowering and supporting them to achieve their best quality of life while also promoting acceptance, inclusion, and celebrating our differences. This is especially true for parents whose child has Autism or is on the Autism Spectrum.

Every child responds in their own way to events they encounter every day. For children with Autism their reactions may be unforeseen because of communication challenges, or certain behavioral characteristics such as difficulty with changes in routine and sensory sensitivities.

As a parent it can be difficult for you to look in your child’s mouth, let alone brush their teeth. For some it may be difficult to let you know their teeth are bothering them. Sometimes you notice habits like grinding their teeth, hitting their mouth and teeth, chewing on non-food objects, or eating sugary foods and drinks; which can affect their dental health.

This is also stressful for you when you’re trying to establish healthy dental hygiene habits and your child is overwhelmed by sounds, smells, tastes, textures, flavors, and your child becomes anxious.

So what to do and where to start?

First Focus On Introducing Your Home Dental Hygiene Routine

A calm place is a great way to start.

Create a step by step picture guide book (aka social story or story board) or an activity schedule. Either one or both are quite helpful and go a long way to establishing your routine.

When putting together your picture book you may want to start talking about why we have teeth. The answer is that teeth help us eat, talk and give us our smiles.

You can begin by yourself or include your child while you talk about brushing teeth as you cut and paste pictures, take family photos, or make drawings of each step of your routine.

Your guide book can include picture sections for:

Today we going to brush my teeth in the bathroom (insert picture or photo of a bathroom)These are the times we brush our teeth every day (pictures of clock with AM and PM times)I am going to stand in the bathroom in front of the bathroom sink (picture of bathroom sink)
My Mommy/Daddy will be in the bathroom with me and I will look at my Mommy/Daddy (picture of parent)
We are going to use a tooth brush to brush my teeth. This is my tooth brush, it’s soft (picture of your child’s tooth brush)
We are going to use dental floss to clean between my teeth. This is my dental floss (picture of your child’s dental floss)We are going to put tooth paste on my tooth brush. This is my toothpaste (picture of tooth paste on your child’s toothbrush)I need to open my mouth. I will open my mouth wide and stay open (picture of your child with their mouth open wide)I need to brush my teeth for 2 minutes. This is my timer to brush my teeth (picture of your child’s timer with 2 minutes showing)This is how Mommy/Daddy wash the tooth paste off my teeth (picture of a wet wash cloth or your child spitting into the sink)
I like this and I’m doing great (picture of smiles or thumbs up)Mommy/Daddy are flossing and brushing my teeth now (picture of flossing and brushing teeth), Then we’ll take the tooth paste off my teeth (picture of wash cloth or your child spitting into the sink)This is my tooth brushing timer counting down the 2 minutes I’m brushing my teeth (picture of their timer counting down)I did a great job (picture of you both smiling together)I may get a prize (recommended but this is up to you to decide about a small reward like a sticker, then take a picture with the sticker).

You may want to put together an activity sheet. To do this print out fun monthly calendar pages and include 2 boxes for each day of the month, 1 box to check off for AM brushing and 1 box for PM brushing and flossing (recommended but totally your decision when to include).

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AM Brushing
PM Flossing
and Brushing
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AM Brushing
PM Flossing
and Brushing
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AM Brushing
PM Flossing
and Brushing
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AM Brushing
PM Flossing
and Brushing
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AM Brushing
PM Flossing
and Brushing
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AM Brushing
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and Brushing
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PM Flossing
and Brushing
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and Brushing
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and Brushing
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Sometimes this can take one sitting to complete or it may take several. What’s important is to keep going because when you’re done your creation is going to be AMAZING!

For now start putting together your family’s picture guide book and/or activity sheet, so that you’re ready for next week’s post when we discuss steps 2 through 4.

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10 Dental Care Tips For Parent’s To Know For Your School Age Child

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As parents we are our child’s 1st health care role model.

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Our Brushing Mojo

Like everything our children’s good dental health starts with good habits at home. As parents we play an important role in developing and encouraging healthy life style behaviors for our child, which are important for their lifelong well-being.

So how do you guide your child toward positive oral healthcare? I’m sharing with you some dental home care tips to help you be successful.

Dental Healthcare Tips For Your Child’s School Age Years

  • Show your child how to brush their teeth by letting them watch you. Use a small soft bristle toothbrush with a flexible head with a pea size amount of fluoride toothpaste.
  • Check out your child’s new teeth. New adult teeth (aka forever teeth) usually start coming in around the time your child is 6 years old and continues on and off until their middle teenage years.
  • When packing lunch and snacks for school and family outings make healthy eating fun and include your child in deciding what to prepare.
  • Limit sugar. Always easier said than done. It’s not only about candy. When you’re grocery shopping take a peak at the label on crackers, cookies, chips, ketchup.
  • Replace your child’s toothbrush every three months. Involve them by letting them pick out the color or design. Always look for and use a soft bristle toothbrush.
  • Playing sports for the school team or at after-school is the time to talk about mouth guards. It’s all about injury prevention.
  • Watch out for juices, sodas and soft drinks! Children love these sweet drinks, but they’re also a significant cause of cavities. Instead go with water and non-sweetened drinks.
  • Keep track of daily brushing and flossing habits. Your child should brush once in the morning and once at night after flossing.
  • Settle on a schedule. Like when they were toddlers, tying brushing habits to bedtime is a good idea to create a routine for them. Try 30 minutes before bed time every night. When you’re finished it’s a good time for cuddling or reading.
  • Begin a small reward system. Children respond well to positive reinforcement. Think about small rewards like stickers, extra snuggle time or reading an extra story with them after brushing and before it’s light’s out for bed. This goes a long way to having an enjoyable night every night.

This is challenging and sometimes frustrating. Don’t lose sight of your short term goals and your child’s long term prize. Your goals get you to your prize which is life long dental health for your family.

Most important, remember to have fun. Children love to have fun, so have fun with your child while you install in them good dental health habits that will last them their life-time.

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Happy 2023 to You! We celebrated the end of another year last week and are looking forward to everything 2023 has to bring. Wishing you all a happy and healthy new year with plenty to smile about!!

Mom Tips For Starting Off 2023 On The Right Tooth

My Mom Showing Me How To Brush My Teeth

Brush And Floss By Example

Show your children that taking care of their teeth and gums is something you do twice a day everyday. Brushing after breakfast and before bed is important, so is flossing before bedtime brushing. Show them how you hold your toothbrush – tilt the bristles toward your gums and move your brush in little circles, making sure to touch every side of every tooth. This doesn’t have to be boring. You can have fun! What’s your favorite songs? You can brush to the music.

Using Fluoride Toothpaste From The Start Is Okay

The American Dental Association (ADA) and The American Academy Of Pediatric Dentistry (AAPD) recommend that parents use fluoride toothpaste as soon as your baby gets their first tooth. All you need is a little bit. A tiny rice grain size of toothpaste is all you need at first, then a peas-size amount once your child turns 3 years old.

Fluoride In The Water

Drinking water that has fluoride in it and using fluoride toothpaste is not too much fluoride. The amount that is put into each is not too little and not too much but the exact right amount because it is strictly enforced so everyone’s teeth benefit.

Water Is Good For Teeth, Soda And Juice Not So Much

The sugar and the fizzy make soda and juice taste so good, and so bad for teeth. What’s left in the mouth sits on teeth and makes their saliva more acidic. The more often teeth have a sugar bath the more likely cavities will form.

New Parents You Can Stop Cavities Before They Start

Wiping your child’s mouth (inside and out) after a feeding and before you put them to bed (or nap) can decrease the potential for a specific type of cavities on baby teeth. That’s right, all you have to do is clean their mouth with a wet washcloth starting before they get teeth and even after teeth start coming into their mouth. P.S. This also means never putting your child to sleep while they are still having their feeding.

Play It Safe

Accidents, falls, sports are common causes of tooth trauma for children. To reduce the risk of injuries, make sure your child is secure in their car seat, wears a helmet when riding a bicycle, and uses a mouthguard when playing contact sports.

Rewards And Praise

Just never candy.

These tips help make it easier for you to set your child up for a lifetime of healthy teeth and bright beautiful smiles!

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